Long Distance Relationship

The term “LDR or Long Distance Relationship” is kinda scary kasi yang ang pino-front ng maraming tao. They will say na “mahirap yan be”,”nako hirap mag-adjust” they may be true pero ang LDR ay hindi lang puro negative kahit na bago lang ako sa LDR marami na kong narealize at mas marami akong naappreciate kaysa dati.

Oo mahirap na makita na umaalis ang taong mahal mo na hindi ka kasama, seeing him na naglalakad palayo sa’yo, hindi na sya lumilingo sa’yo, those moment I wanted to enter sa part ng airport nun and hug him ng mahigpit pero syempre hindi ko keri ang ganon baka hindi ko na sya mapakawalan pa. haha. ‘Yong mga taong nagsabi sakin na mahirap daw at kung anu-ano, their words ay pauli-ulit sa utak ko PERO hindi ko hinayaang malunod ako sa mga sinabi nila dahil alam kong iba ang meron kami. 🙂

Anu-ano nga ba ang mga nare-realize ko simula nung nagLDR kami:

1. I miss him so much, as in sooooo much. Given na to dahil halos weekly nagkikita kami and then after nyang umalis hindi na yun mangyayari after 2 years na ulit, malaki ang changes, totoo din naman sila na may adjustment na mangyayare pero hindi ko sya tinake as negative 🙂 Every single day namimiss ko sya ng bongga, yung the way nyang hawakan ang mga kamay ko, titigan ang mga mata ko, at yung pagiging gentleman nya sakin.
2. Communication is really important. Kung dati nandito sya Pilipinas, communication is really easy parang routine na lang ang dating pero nung nasa ibang bansa na sya I treasure those text so much, as in. Mas naexcite ako tunog pa lang ng messenger at makita na nagmessage sya sobra na yung tuwa ko at kilig ko (literal). Both of us we’re always looking forward to talk and chat with each other. 🙂
3. Less tampuhan. Syempre he didn’t go to other country para magrelax, nandun sya para magwork for his family and for our future (I think,naks! hahaha). For our limited time to talk because of the time difference syempre mas iiwasan na magkaroon ng misunderstanding para not to waste our time. 🙂
4. I really appreciarte more of our time and our talk. And because we have time difference, we just have limited time to talk. Nung naging LDR kami I’m really looking forward to talk to him and see his face in the video call. O ver yung happiness sa puso ko kapag nag-uusap kami parang our relationship became simple but full of love and excitement.

 

I think I will learn a lot of things pa about myself, him and in our relationship. Being in a LDR Realtionship it is not complicated, just remove your fear and let love rule an

Thought of the day-TAGALOG

May mga bagay na hindi kayang ipaliwanag ng salita katulad ng nararamdaman ng isang tao. Hindi mo mailagay at magamit ang salita upang maintindihan ng iba ang gusto mong sabihin at kung ano ang tunay mong nararamdaman. At dahil sa hindi mo maihayag ang mga ito nawawala ka na sa sarili mo at mas palaging iniisip ang iisipin at sasabihin ng iba patungkol sa’yo.

Hindi man tunay na maintindihan ng iba ang nararamdaman mo basta alam mo sa sarili mo kung okay ka ba o hindi, mahirap kapag hindi naiintindihan ang sariling nararamdaman. Wag palaging isipin ang laman ng isip ng tao patungkol sa’yo, hayaan mo silang mag-isip ng kung anu-ano dahil hindi mo naman mako-kontrol ang iba. Ang kaya mo lang manipulahin ay ang sarili mo, IKAW! Kung ano ang ipapahintulot mo sa isip mo na isipin nya at kung ano ang dapat mong maramdaman. Sabi nga nila “Life is full of choices” kaya you have to choose ku ng ano ang mas makakabuti sa’yo, para sa sarili mo.

Oo nakakaapekto ang iba, pero hindi naman siguro selfish na minsan ay isipin mo ang sarili mo at ang nararamdaman mo. Mas madalas concern tayo sa “Iba” na napag-iiwanan na ang “Ikaw”. Kaya huwag hayaang mawala at lamunin ng “iba” ang “ikaw”, mas masarap na  buhay ka sa mundong ito na alam mo kung sino ka at ano ang tunay mong nararamdaman, you caannot please everybody as well.

 

Just live your life.

They say….

They say that I am a strong, brave and an independent woman. Feels like, I can do anything and feel okay with everything, ’cause I can handle it. I can face all the difficulties that this life can throw on me and overcome it without any hassle. They thought of me like a woman wearing a full metal armor. BUT… they are wrong. 😦

I may be tough on the outside but inside of me is just also a girl, who fears a lot of thing, full of drama, and sometimes a crying baby. hehe

A girl will always be a girl, there are just times that I don’t want to show other people how I really feel, I don’t want to show the weak and soft side of me because I think there are people can use my weakness to take advantage of me. I can say that I don’t just let other people be really part of my world, to really know who really am I. You know the feeling that I really want to be brave but then inside of me is falling apart and then whenever I’m alone I end up crying to release whatever inside of me.

Sometimes controlling our emotions and let the world see who aren’t us is hard and in some way is wrong. Just like you’re living in a fake way. And sometimes it is better to show other people who you really are, they may judge you but at least you didn’t fool yourself about lies of your emotions.

To those people who told me that I am strong and such (I hope I’m that kind of woman hehe), sorry for being a liar in front of you, I’m just afraid of showing you who really am I. But I’ll try my best to be more of myself than living under a lie.

What I miss.

Its been so long since my last blog this is what I really miss. Posting my reviews about a place or a restaurant, sharing my insights and my personal thoughts about something.

Hope I can be more active now a days.

Who am I?

Sino nga ba talaga ako? Paano ko nalamang ito talaga ang gusto ko? Sino ba ako sa harap ng iba, baka iba ako kapag ako lang.  There are many people na ganyan din ang mga tanong sa sarili nila. May mga tao na kadalasan they are living their life na hindi naman talaga sila yun, they are just being a “wanna-be-me” in front of others.

Mahirap itago ang tunay na sarili. There are people na gustong ipakita na masaya sila kahit hindi naman talaga, they are hiding their true identity para hindi ma-judge or masaktan.

Minsan sa buhay natin mas gusto nating ipakiita ang mga maskara natin kaysa sa mga tunay nating mga emotions. Mahirap din kasi i-voice out ang tunay na nararamdaman di ba? Kaya bilib ako sa mga taong kayang sabihin sa iba ang kanilang tunay na nararamdaman sa isang.

Opening ourselves to other people may lead to positive or negative side, there are people who can really accept you for who you are and encourage you to be yourself always. On the other hand, there are people who will judge you for who you really are and will keep on criticize you. That’s why it is so hard in voicing out what we really feel and who we really are.

Let me know how are you voicing out your  feelings to other people. Hit like, share and follow!

Lunch of the Day @ Cafe +

This is Cafe + located at Plaridel, Bulacan. This place is so good I can rate it a 5 star! Very good place to read or for family and friends gathering. 🙂 Very cool! And all in their menu is so delicious 🙂 ❤ especially the cakes! Who doesn’t love cakes right?

My meal is all green, wanna see it? Here 🙂

 All green and Cheese Panini

Match Latte

And For dessert! Green Tea Cheesecake! (MY FAVORITE!)

Try this coffee shop! You’ll not regret it 🙂

Lemme know if you tried this shop already 🙂 Don’t forget to hit like, share and follow for more 🙂 THANK YOU 🙂

If You’re Afraid Of Love Because You’re Afraid Of Loss: This Is For You

“We’re afraid of losing before we’ve even lost anything at all. So afraid that we hold ourselves back from having it in the first place.” BOOM!

My wish…

How I wish love is just a easy thing. No conflicts, pain, fights, just pure happiness and fun. But they said that all things that are easily get are not worth it. You’ll never know its real worth when you just get it in a single snap.

So in love there are hardships, trials, and problems to show the “realness” and seriousness of one-lover. To see if you really match and if his/her love is greater than those difficulties. Love is not so simple yet it is the best feeling ever! In love there is joy even though there is sadness, excitement even though there is disappointment, and love even though there is pain. But in the end you’ll say to your partner in front of the altar that he/she is worth it of every difficulty and trials.

That’s the real love, it doesn’t give up. ‘Cause love is greater than all feeling in this world! 

What pain that is worth it?

Is there really a negative feeling that can be positive? How ironic! But, yes there is the pain from the one you love.

Every relationship there are storms passing by like misunderstanding, few misinterpretation. There is no such a thing as “perfect-relationship” so don’t expect of no small fights or misunderstanding.

But the pain form the misunderstanding is worth it, why?

1. From there you can learn from him/her. Like one of the most famous lines we know “Experience is the best teacher.” Well it is true so you can never repeat what causes the misunderstanding.

2. You can know each other well. People change, from time to time, it is inevitable. You can discover the different sides of your partner which is needed if you want your relationship to last forever.

3. From what you’ve learned and discovered now, both of you can grow and be matured. One of the goals of every partners living in this world. It is so nice to grow with what you’ve experienced in the past whether it is bad or happy experience. Like change, growing is inevitable, physically, mentally and most of all emotionally. And if you’re matured already you can control your feelings, filter it so only the good ones will be felt. You can avoid small fights and arguments.

REMEMBER: There is no such thing as a perfect nor a person in this world, that’s why we need someone to fill all those empty spaces and blanks in our life to make us feel perfect and complete. Love is greater than all those pain and hardships. Let love flow and may your relationship grow. ❤ Keep loving and don’t you ever give up on each other and that’s LOVE.

This Is How I’ll Date You