The term “LDR or Long Distance Relationship” is kinda scary kasi yang ang pino-front ng maraming tao. They will say na “mahirap yan be”,”nako hirap mag-adjust” they may be true pero ang LDR ay hindi lang puro negative kahit na bago lang ako sa LDR marami na kong narealize at mas marami akong naappreciate kaysa dati.
Oo mahirap na makita na umaalis ang taong mahal mo na hindi ka kasama, seeing him na naglalakad palayo sa’yo, hindi na sya lumilingo sa’yo, those moment I wanted to enter sa part ng airport nun and hug him ng mahigpit pero syempre hindi ko keri ang ganon baka hindi ko na sya mapakawalan pa. haha. ‘Yong mga taong nagsabi sakin na mahirap daw at kung anu-ano, their words ay pauli-ulit sa utak ko PERO hindi ko hinayaang malunod ako sa mga sinabi nila dahil alam kong iba ang meron kami. 🙂
Anu-ano nga ba ang mga nare-realize ko simula nung nagLDR kami:
- I miss him so much, as in sooooo much. Given na to dahil halos weekly nagkikita kami and then after nyang umalis hindi na yun mangyayari after 2 years na ulit, malaki ang changes, totoo din naman sila na may adjustment na mangyayare pero hindi ko sya tinake as negative 🙂 Every single day namimiss ko sya ng bongga, yung the way nyang hawakan ang mga kamay ko, titigan ang mga mata ko, at yung pagiging gentleman nya sakin.
- Communication is really important. Kung dati nandito sya Pilipinas, communication is really easy parang routine na lang ang dating pero nung nasa ibang bansa na sya I treasure those text so much, as in. Mas naexcite ako tunog pa lang ng messenger at makita na nagmessage sya sobra na yung tuwa ko at kilig ko (literal). Both of us we’re always looking forward to talk and chat with each other. 🙂
- Less tampuhan. Syempre he didn’t go to other country para magrelax, nandun sya para magwork for his family and for our future (I think,naks! hahaha). For our limited time to talk because of the time difference syempre mas iiwasan na magkaroon ng misunderstanding para not to waste our time. 🙂
- I really appreciarte more of our time and our talk. And because we have time difference, we just have limited time to talk. Nung naging LDR kami I’m really looking forward to talk to him and see his face in the video call. O ver yung happiness sa puso ko kapag nag-uusap kami parang our relationship became simple but full of love and excitement.
I think I will learn a lot of things pa about myself, him and in our relationship. Being in a LDR Realtionship it is not complicated, just remove your fear and let love rule an
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